Do you hide a secret pleasure? Is there something that turns you on that no one but you knows about? Do you long for a premium quality kink experience? I’m your girl. BDSM is especially my favorite but I love all of the others just as much.
New to Kink/BDSM
Do you have an idea of a kinky or BDSM experience that you want but have never been comfortable enough to share it with anyone? Ask me about my Introduction to Kink parties! Don’t worry, I want to start nice and slow and this party is the best way to get experience with BDSM/kink/fetish experiences. Let me know what you desire and I’ll make it a reality.
Know what you want?
Are you a man who knows what he wants? If so, I offer a veteran’s course for intense BDSM/kink/fetish parties. Do your needs go unmet because no one can keep up? I can satisfy those needs, even on an intense and higher level. Show off your skills! I’m no slouch either. I’ve developed my skills through BDSM/kink/fetish over years of study and I’m here to give you the pinnacle BDSM/kink/fetish experience.
Q: What is BDSM?
So BDSM is an acronym for “bondage and discipline, dominance and submission, sadism and masochism. BDSM contains a spectrum of activities that fall under those categories.
Q: Where do you fall in the BDSM spectrum?
I love to be the dominator but I also love to be the submissive. Given that, this offers you a very flexible range with the BDSM activities.
Q: What is a kink or fetish?
In BDSM, a kink and fetish are two words that seem different but are actually the same thing. It is something that turns you on that might be considered taboo, such as hair pulling, scratching, pegging, feet, edging, humiliation, bondage, restraints, etc. Pedants may define kink as “something you do” and a fetish as “an unusual attribute you find attractive.”
Q: Which skills are you best at?
This might come as a surprise, but most of my encounters ask me to dominate them. There’s nothing quite like a lady that knows how to make you do things. I’m a real FemDom. I will own you, humiliate you, abuse you. I have many tools in my domination shed – like my whips, floggers, paddles, crops, foot worship, cock and ball torture, ruined orgasms, and many, many other interesting tools. I’m trained in Shibari (Japanese) rope bondage. Ask me what I can do and let me surprise you.
Q: What is a safeword, and which do you use?
Safe words offer a layer of safety measure in BDSM encounters. They are there to keep us both safe. I prefer colors, like GREEN, YELLOW, AND RED. Green means good and tells me that what I’m doing feels good. Yellow means slow and that things might be too much. That doesn’t mean to stop. Red means to completely stop the scene.
At any time, saying ‘red’ will immediately stop the action. I use ‘red’ instead of ‘no’ since some people enjoy the struggle when we play. This involves saying things like ‘no, please stop’ even if that person doesn’t wish for things to stop.
Q: How do I talk to you about kink and BDSM?
Be upfront and open! Healthy kink relationships start with negotiations first and what each person’s limits are. Since BDSM scenes can bring about intense emotions and sensations, I like to spend a little bit of time conversating before BDSM scenes. Some of the questions I might ask include:
What you’re interested in and why
Your experience level
Any medical issues or medications you’re taking
Your dislikes (limits in BDSM-speak)
I’m a very open companion and I accept everything. There’s nothing too weird or unusual! I want to hear everything you want and have in mind for our meeting.
Q: Why should I have my kink/BDSM party with you?
My BDSM skills are top notch and I’m super knowledgeable. I’m trained in safety measures regarding BDSM and I can make sure no one gets hurt while we play. I know how hard and how soft to push things. I also know how to get into your mind and make you feel dominated. But I can also allow you into mine while you force me into submission.
Q: What toys do you have?
I have floggers, crops, blindfolds, paddles, a gag, nipple clamps, ropes, and much, much more. If there is anything specific, feel free to bring it with you. I’m always ready to try out new toys.